The Rules of Black Tie

These days there seems to be some ambiguity and confusion about when or when not to wear a tuxedo. It’s really not that daunting.

Strictly speaking, if an invitation does not say “black tie” or “formal” and the engagement is before 8 p.m., you are not required or expected to wear a tuxedo. As a rule, any event that could be deemed formal and is after 8 p.m. (like weddings) demands that you wear black tie.

If the invitation says “black tie optional”, you should opt for the black tie. This is more for you to feel comfortable than a hard and fast rule.

“Black tie optional” means either a tuxedo or a dark dressy suit is to be worn. Sportcoats/blazers are not acceptable.

If the invitation says nothing about “black tie optional” and happens to fall in the gray hours of 6 p.m. to 8 p.m., you are better off going with a black, dark blue or navy blue pinstripe suit.

There are only two occasions where you will ever wear white tie. That generally tends to be your wedding or the wedding of a friend if you are a groomsman.